Monday 16 May 2016

Na waa ooo! A car was stolen with a baby inside it.....



A Detroit man took his wife to work early in the morning on Monday and on his way back home at about 1am, he stopped at a convenience store to grab something but left his 3 month old baby, Dakota Grimes’s in the running vehicle, police said.
When he returned, the white Chevrolet Impala was gone, along with the 3-month-old baby inside it.
The baby's father called the Police but there was a delay in sending out an Amber alert for the missing infant because according to the police who responded to the scene, they only collected few information because Grimes’s father grew frustrated and left.
They said he later turned up at a police station, but there was also a procedural hitch that held up the official alert.

Hours later, another Detroit man Gary Zielinski showed up at the home of Ray Harper, according to the Detroit News. And as Zielinski approached his friend’s house, he nearly tripped over something, , lo and behold, it was baby Dakota in front of his porch. They called the Police and they appeared almost immediately and interviewed the two men to make sure they weren't the ones who stole the car.

Shortly after the discovery, Harper, who has several children of his own, and Zielinski both received an Amber Alert about the missing child, and saw a news story about Dakota. They contacted authorities, who Zielinski said “came over here like flies.”

Grimes’s father wasn’t considered a suspect in the aftermath of the incident.

Detroit Police Chief James Craig told reporters at the news conference that the infant was taken to a local hospital after the incident, and didn’t show any signs of trauma.
Craig said the father left in anger at the initial report after he tried to chastise him for taking his daughter out at that time of the night.
“I will tell you and I explained it just this way to him, I said, ‘I’m angry with you. Why would you be out at 1 a.m. with a child?'”. “Now I understand he did drop the mother off, but it was not just so much being out at 1 a.m., it was the fact that he left the child in the car with it running. That’s a recipe for what? A bad situation.”
According to the Free Press, some complications did stall the police response. Craig said they would investigate what delayed the amber alert.
He said:
“So we’re right now trying to determine why there was a delay because of our own processes,” Craig told reporters. “So we’re trying to get to the bottom of that.”
The stolen car remains missing, according to the police department’s Facebook page.


Source: Washington Post

NYSC Says Lack of Funds May Stall 2016 Batch ‘A’ Stream 2’s Orientation Course

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Brigadier-Gen. Sulyman Kazaure, Director-General, National Youths Service Corps (NYSC), on Monday told the Senate that lack of funds may stall mobilising 2016 Batch A Stream 2 prospective corps members for orientation.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that orientation for the batch is expected to commence on Friday May 20th in 37 camps across the country.
Kazaure told the Senate Committee on Sports in Abuja that the money required for the exercise was yet to be provided.
He said that the NYSC had written several letters requesting for the money but that as at Monday, it was yet to receive response from the Federal Government.
According to him, we had written to Federal Ministry of Youth and Sports, Finance, Budget and the Presidency even before the end of the orientation camp for Batch A, Stream One.
“We are presently at a loss in NYSC now as there is no money for us to mobilise thousands of prospective corps members in the Batch A Stream 2 to camp this Friday. This is in spite of efforts made by us to get things done in that direction several weeks ago. The problem staring us in the face arose from the N13 billion shortfall we had in the 2016 budget estimate which the agency made strong request for its provision during budget defence,” he said.
Kazaure, however, expressed the hope that the presidency may make last minute intervention by providing “the urgently-needed fund for the programme”.
He told the committee that the Chief of Staff to President Muhammadu Buharihad invited the Minister of Youths and Sports, Solomon Dalong, to see him over the matter.
In his remark, Chairman of the Senate committee, Senator Obinna Ogba (PDP Ebonyi Central), assured the NYSC that the senate would intervene in the matter.
He said that the senate would convene a meeting during the week for all the parties concerned, including Ministries of Finance and Budget, to find a quick solution to the problem.
“We have listened to you and we are also disturbed by the problem at hand as regards paucity of funds for mobilisation of prospective corps members. NYSC is not something to joke with; even if it is through urgent supplementary budget provisions, the problem must be quickly tackled by the Federal Government,” he said.

Sunday 15 May 2016

See Pictures of the Ice-filled Rainfall in Jos Last Week

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Despite the ravaging heat in all other parts of the country, Jos residents were treated to a ice-filled downpour last Wednesday, and some Thursday.

Facebook user Patience Nana Felixshared the photos with this caption:“Mehn Today’s rain was awesome in Jos. Ice blocks only. Dear God plz can it be fish next time or maybe money thanks.”
This rare phenomenon was also captured by Farida AdamuBashar Bala BodingaIsaac Chingle, and Aliyu Suleiman which they posted on their Facebook timeline.
See pictures below:
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Friday 13 May 2016

Reasons why you get so angry...

I have devoted a very huge part of my recent growth to understanding human behaviours, pattern and their mindsets. This is both in a bid to re-invent myself and also build on my profession as a people developer.

Research and reality has it that we all get overwhelmed by our emotions at times, some of which may lead to irrational behavior, especially anger.

There is nothing wrong in getting angry, provided you know how to make the best of the situation.

I have been called ‘Mr Smiley’ at times, other times I have been called ‘Sir Laugh-a-lot.’ Some have asked me if I ever get angry. Sometimes people do things to piss me off in order to see my reaction to certain situations.

Do I ever get angry? Or do I just control myself and refuse to take rash actions. I have not always been that calm and forgiving, maybe because I studied on Anger management, emotional intelligence and Psychology.

Back in secondary school, I wasn’t a wicked senior student, I cared about the junior ones and gladly nobody stepped on my toes. Even if they had, I wouldn’t have caused the person any pain. Or maybe not.

I slapped a junior student and pus came out of his ear. Was that the best reaction to anger? I had a little quarrel with my fellow student, he made me really angry. That night I burnt him with hot iron. Nobody knew it was me, not even him. Others were punished for it, I wish I knew better.

Feeling angry is part of being human. It is a natural response to being attacked, insulted, deceived or frustrated. Sometimes, excessive anger can also be a symptom of some mental health problems.

That is the height of anger; some get so angry and curse, some “just say their mind,” others get into a fight. There is a display of emotional instability and inability to control our actions. Anger becomes a problem when it harms you or people around you. This can depend on whether you express your anger, and how you express it.

So what do I do when I am angry? Or before I get angry.


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Understand Yourself:
For example, you may be getting angry every time a senior male colleague tells you to do something. This could be because you had an unpleasant experience in the past with another male authority figure e.g. your father, or a previous boss. Or it may be you get angry each time you’re in a situation you have no control over.

What are the things that got you pissed? What were the circumstances?  Did someone say or do something to trigger your anger?  How did you feel?  How did you behave?   How did you feel afterwards.? Just recognising what is making you angry can sometimes be enough to help.


Understand the situation and others:
Walk away from the confrontation. You can count to ten when faced with a situation. Think about the situation, what it means and what the person really means. If you don’t understand the message, ask the person again.

Make it difficult for others to make you angry:
As humans, we have certain rules as to what makes us angry, happy, sad etc. The wrong thing is that people have harder standards for others to make them happy, and lower standards for others to get them angry. Change your rules balance.

Be considerate to others. Be more understanding. Be more forgiving. Not every situation requires that you react.

Make this steps a success.

Things that increase the chances of success:
There are a number of things that will help you to succeed in managing your anger: 
-Practice: you need to practice the strategies which you have decided to try.-
-Perseverance: keep trying, even if you don’t have immediate success.
-Patience: your anger difficulties took time to develop; it will also take time to learn how to manage your anger.
-Planning: plan what you are going to do, don’t take a random approach.
-Determination: you will need determination to succeed
-Optimistic Thinking:  approach managing your anger from an optimistic point of view.  You are going to succeed at this. 
-Responsibility taking: others may be able to help but ultimately you are responsible for changing your behaviour

Letter to Africa Single Ladies....... Guess what????

Ipheoma Elebe
Dear Single Bestie,
It can’t be easy… being single in our society today. Too many people in your business, questioning your decisions and trying to hurry your heart faster than it wishes to go, but guess what? This fearful image of ‘society’ that you have is made of individuals like you fighting their own demons everyday.

An organism is just a mass bundle of a million cells; so is the society… just a mass bundle of humans like you. Nothing to fear, no need to fret girl!
I remember our last conversation, and I picked four points from all you said which I would like to address.
1. You would actually love to get married someday
2. You are scared of ending up with the wrong person
3. You are ashamed to admit to other people that you actually want to be married because you don’t want to be seen as desperate, so you put up a front
4. You think the pressure from your parents would end once you get married.

My sister, I know I am not yet up to ten years in marriage but the wisdom of Solomon has nothing to do with the age of Methuselah, so if you would take my words to heart… they might help you.
First, it’s okay to want to be married…it’s also okay to not want marriage. It’s a personal decision, and one that should be made strictly personally! Remember, ‘society’ is made up of people like YOU, so let’s not start on what ‘society’ thinks.
There are those who excel perfectly working alone, and there are those who only rise to their fullest potentials within the provisions of a team. Trust me, you won’t stop being my dearest friend if you decide not to get married…our friendship isn’t built on that. Secondly, your fear is normal and well-founded. I mean, given the news we wake up to everyday, one would be insane not to be scared!
Heck, I am happily married but I am still scared of waking up one morning and seeing a total stranger in my bed (no pun intended). You see, life happens. Death, infidelity, financial loss, accidents, sicknesses happen but none of these stop our motion. We can only do so much and believe for the best.

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Nwanne mu, having colleagues who state boldly that ‘marriage is crap’ and they don’t want a part of it shouldn’t make you feel like your desire is illegitimate. They want what they want…you want what you want. Period. I should add that there are happy and good great marriages out there…in this same terrible ‘society’ of ours.
Yes, there are men who still cook for their wives. There are men who help in cleaning the home. There are men that still take their wives on dates and show them how much they care. There are men who drive past a boutique, see something nice and pick up for wifey.

There are married women who have never been slapped (or even threatened to be slapped) and there are married women who do not have lazy husbands or devil incarnates as in-laws. Remember how you were bullied in junior high school? You hated school and always longed for the holidays.
Remember? In that same school, I had a terrific time because of my older cousin who was a senior and sheltered me. Does your experience make our school bad? Did the presence of bullies in our school write out the school? Do you remember how happy you were when the bullying stopped, once you reported to the House Mistress? I remember you saying ‘knowledge is power’ and Tracy corrected you, saying ‘applied knowledge is power’ because so many juniors knew they could go to the HM but were too scared to do so.
We all passed through the same school, but had different experiences. Same goes for marriage. If you still have the desire to get married someday, please take your time. Don’t cave in to the pressure. You don’t want to start now to bend backwards to society girl! I got married before the ‘where is your husband’ pressure started, but you think I escaped? Oh No, I didn’t! “Where is the baby? What are you guys waiting for? Did you miss your period yet?” So we had our beautiful daughter and you would think the pressure was over, right? So when is the next one coming? You need to give birth sharply and rest! Don’t use birth control oh, those drugs would damage your womb (from some non-medical personnel of course) These days, I can’t put up my girl’s picture on social media without having at least two people ask me when the next one is coming!
How about when you are pregnant? You would feel the pressure to give birth vaginally, by fire by force! Because ‘that is what makes you a Hebrew woman’! I heard of a lady that passed on during child birth. She had been told her pelvis was too small for the baby to pass through, and a Caesarian Section was recommended. This was during her pelvic assessment; three weeks before her EDD. This sweetheart refused to hear nay. In her church and in her family, it was considered a win for the devil if she didn’t ‘push’ herself. So prayers and fasting entered the equation but nothing changed. She was in labour for two days before common sense prevailed. Unfortunately, she and the baby were too stressed to come out alive. Talk about pressure! Now is the time to figure YOU out and develop that tough skin that would get you through life, because pressure waits at every milestone and if you can’t deal with it now, that’s what we should be working on.
So ore mi, what exactly do you want? Do you want to be a happily single, upwardly-mobile lady fulfilling purpose and touching lives? I have a great imagery for that.
I imagine we would have lots of amazing girl trips and you would move faster up the career ladder than I, since you can do longer hours, make urgent trips on a whim and can afford to stay out of town for long stretches. Of course, you could drive a better car than I, because while I am buying clothes every quarter (they grow too fast) and new toys, giving pocket money and buying groceries, you have your hard-earned money for YOURSELF. So yes, I would have to leave the minivan parked at home when I come with you on those girl trips in your Mercedes convertible (PLEASEEE make it an C class ☺ ).

If you think you would love to get married, then by all means, wait on the right one. It would break my heart to see you hurt; so please take your time before you decide. I have a great imagery for this one too. Summer vacates, we can drop the kids at your mom’s or mine and have a couples’ getaway…like the one we had in Accra during undergrad…only this time, the sex would be legal *winks*.
You can also drop the kids at mine when you and hubby want time alone or if there is an important conference you need to go to…or just because the kids want to spend time together. Oh…the family time fun we would have at the beach! That art studio I pointed to you the other day, and at Disneyland!
Maybe we would enroll the all kids at one uni and then have them stay together in a flat, so visiting time would be fun as well! And then soon (yea, soon) we would be planning our daughters’ weddings (if they allow us to) and raising our grand babies together.

You see my dear friend, your life would turn out beautifully whichever way you choose to go. And I would be right there with you all the way…because that’s what real friends do. So don’t give in to the pressure, because those who matter don’t care about your marital status, and those who care certainly do not matter. The next time we gist, I would give you some inside scoop on how you can tell the frogs from the princes *winks* some little mistakes we overlook in dating that eventually lead to bigger wahala in marriage. You don’t want to miss that!

Thursday 12 May 2016

Tyga and Kylie Jenner have broken up again!!! You wont believe why.....

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Kylie Jenner and Tyga have broken up…again!

People Magazine has confirmed that the Keeping up with the Kardashians star, 18, and the rapper, 26, are no longer together after nearly two years of dating.
This is the second publicized breakup of the famous couple.
Their last major public appearance was at the Met Gala on May 2.
It has been an interesting relationship journey for Kylie and Tyga. The pair started dating while she was legally below the age of consent and he had just ended his relationship with his then-fiance and mother of his son Blac Chynawho is now engaged and pregnant for Kylie brother Rob Kardashian.

These cant get enough of each other! Pictures of Rob K and Black Chyna in a strip club

Blac Chyna & Rob K step out to celebrate her birthday at a strip club Miami

Rob Kardashian really looks happy! He stepped out with Angela 'Blac Chyna' to celebrate her 28th birthday at G5ive Strip Club in Miami, Florida. The expectant mum displayed a hint of her baby bump in a white jumpsuit and partied with her fiancé in an exclusive area of the venue that had fully naked strippers put on a show for everyone present. See more photos after the cut...

Tuesday 10 May 2016

The shocking news about Janet Jackson's secret child with her ex husband

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Following Janet Jackson’s announcement that she and husbandWissam Al Mana are having their first child, her ex-husband James DeBargehas come forward to state that Janet Jackson had a secret daughter in her late teens when they were married and that she kept the pregnancy a secret from him and the world.
In an exclusive interview withRadarOnline, James DeBarge claims the daughter has been in contact with him via emails and that she is willing to do a paternity test.
In his interview he talks about how the child reached out to him, why Janet Jackson probably kept her a secret and more.
On how she reached out to him: Someone had contacted me. She spoke to me by email. The first time was two years ago. I have not been able to directly see her face-to-face…She was angry because another child was trying to come forward and say that she was our child. So she did out of anger.
On why she reached out to him: She described as much as she could tell me because she was very fearful at the time. She was very angry about people running with this story about this [other child] being my baby. She got very angry. She’s like, ‘Papa I want to help you out.’ She had so much of personality and she was so accurate with everything she was saying, it was only things that I and Janet know. No one else but god, me and Janet. She called me ‘papa’. She didn’t want to get her mom in trouble. She wanted to do it quietly. She didn’t even want Janet to know.
On how she found out about her real parents: One of her adoptive parents died. Her adoptive mother and on her death bed said she told her. She confirmed it on the deathbed.
On if he had known about the adoption: I hadn’t known [that Janet had a baby]… not for sure. I went on a search. Someone went through some serious changes to make it impossible for me to find. This had to be some serious inside work being done with the paperwork. Someone was working with them.
On how he felt when he found out: I was hurt and I didn’t know why I was hurt. I think I was hurt because I had mixed emotions. I felt kind of left out and I felt like it was unfair. At first, I felt like this was the worst thing in the world that happened to me. I was so depressed by it at first. It would have to be hidden from me if she wasn’t a part of my life all the time and I didn’t know anything about her. There’s no way it could not have been hidden. I didn’t know. Had I known, I would never have kept it a [secret]. I would have been very proud of her.

Khloe Kardashian clears the air about those criticizing her body



Online trolls have always criticized Khloe Kardashian for photoshopping her legs and she has, most of the time, owned up to it. On Monday Khloe took to her website khloewithak.com to explain why she tends to Photoshop that one leg. She explained that she has to have reconstructive surgery done on that leg due to the car accident she had when she was only 16-years-old.
She titled the entry, 'Why I Photoshopped This Picture. She wrote:
'Whenever I post a picture of my legs on Instagram, everyone comments on how fu**ed up my knees look. 'It's because I've had reconstructive surgery, you a**holes!' 'My right leg is an inch and a half thinner than my left because my muscles deteriorated and never recovered. 
'It's funny because everyone made a big stink about this Instagram photo because I Photoshopped it. Yes, I did Photoshop it, but I was trying to make my thinner leg look bigger to match my other leg!!! 'All I want are big, thick thighs and I hate how skinny my legs are.' 
'The reason I've had so many of these surgeries and always wear a knee brace for my workouts is because I was in a car accident when I was 16.'
She continued:
'To this day, I remember the exact streets (Ventura Blvd. and Coldwater Canyon). 'I was speeding and the other car ran a stop sign. I was wearing my seatbelt but the strap was under my armpit. 'I was in a small Mercedes and it compacted in the wreck. My head and upper body went through the windshield and my legs were stuck under the steering wheel.' 
'I still remember hitting the other car, feeling the car spinning, and hitting a pole. 'I was on crutches for six months and had a leg brace that went from my ankle to my upper thigh. I had a neck brace, burns all over my body and had to take showers sitting in a chair.'
She said her best friends, twins- 'Malika and Khadijah were there for her.
She added:
'Malika and Khadijah would literally help me shower. They also did my hair so that I wouldn't have to wash it as often. That's how I first started wearing cornrows!' 
'I had knee surgery the day of my accident and a couple more after that. Lord, help me! So next time you see me in a knee brace, you know why!'

Sunday 8 May 2016

Latest news on Tee Billz and his hard drugs problem: You wont believe this!

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Sequel to the Tiwa Savage and Tee Billz marriage crisis, On Air Personality, Freeze took to instagram to report that Tee Billz has tested negative for cocaine and other hard substances.
Freeze alleged that the estranged hubby and former manager of Tiwa Savage was seen at a laboratory in Victoria Island.
He reported, “BREAKING: Tee Billz tests negative for hard drugs! This comes from an unconfirmed source, who saw them at a lab in VI. Furthermore, an insider who chose to remain anonymous said he tested negative to cocaine and every other hard drug.”
Continuing his post, Daddy Freeze, as he is sometimes called, urged all well wishers to keep the troubled music industry executive in their prayers, even as further confirmation is expected from his base. Freeze concluded,” We should continue to keep them in our prayers as we await a proper confirmation from his camp!”
Recall that Tee Billz attempted suicide last week, after an online meltdown and twitter rant; he has been reported to be unstable due to alleged drug use. The fallout has been a breakdown of his marriage to his music diva wife; Tiwa. Celebrities, fans, and family have continued to comment on the issue, many of whom have criticized the previously respected, powerful Nigerian entertainment couple a trending topic ever since.
The Nation
- See more at: http://naijadetails.com/2016/05/05/tee-billz-tests-negative-for-hard-drugs/#sthash.s1k5v1qX.dpuf

Monday 2 May 2016

Nigeria First Nollywood pornstar Afrocandy: Nude pictures hacked

First known Nigerian pornstar, Afrocandy, has given her fans and followers and eyeful with some jaw-dropping bedroom photos and s*xy twerking. Its an eye candy for the guys!
Nollywood soft-porn actress and producer, Judith Chichi Opara Mazagwu, commonly known by her stage name Afro Candy, has attempted to break the internet once again.
The singer and model who is the founder and CEO of Invisible Twins Productions LLC, took to her Instagram to share some sizzling bedroom photos and some videos clips which sees her sexually twerks on a mystery man.
See more photos and watch the videos below;
- See more at: http://naijadetails.com/2016/04/04/nigerian-nollywood-pornstar-afrocandy-twerks-for-a-man-in-raunchy-bedroom-photos/#sthash.NOWpLDiL.dpuf

Why Charly Boy blasted Tiwa Savage.......

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“TeeBillz and Tiwa Savage una fall my hand no be small’, says an unimpressed Charly Boy who doesn’t ‘comment on people’s private lives’, but owes his ‘reading fans’ a comment on the trending news – that has become the ill-fated marriage of the celebrity couple.
The Area Fada and veteran singer shares his Sunday morning take on the marital crisis.
“I must confess that my heart breaks a little each time I hear/read about celebrities who self distruct because they couldn’t handle Fame or the ones whose marriages are falling apart, because they don’t know how to hold it down. Its sad, especially if they are amongst stars that I admire and love.”
“Commenting on people’s private lives is a no go area for me. But when celebrities wash their dirty linen in public. I owe my reading fans to comment on trending news and issues.”
“TeeBillz and Tiwa Savage una fall my hand no be small. Una no know say MUTUAL RESPECT IS NON-NEGOTIABLE for marriage, why yeye una self for public like this. Una no know say competition na for business no be for marriage what’s the bullshit. Haba, una no just try.”
“I know that artiste/celebrities are more fragile than normal people. However they must understand that they are role models to millions of people, so no matter how deep you are hurting, you need to always come out strong.”
“Celebs must understand that their private life is their private life and they must keep it to themselves. It will earn them more respect that way. I know that people stay married because they want to not because the door is locked.”
“Biko keep your shit to yourselves, keep private private. No marriage can escape bad weather even my own, I dey sometimes see Oba for the matter but like I say marriage is not about being compatible but how couples deal with their incompatibility. Make I no hear una problems for loudspeakers again.

Congrats Beyonce..... A MUST READ

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34-year-old Beyonce’s latest albumLemonade is officially the No. 1 album on the Billboard 200 chart, making it her sixth album to occupy that spot!
Her previous No. 1 albums include ‘Beyonce’ (2013), ‘4’ (2011), ‘I Am… Sasha Fierce’ (2008), ‘B’Day’ ( 2006), and ‘Dangerously In Love’ (2003).
Last week, Lemonade earned 653,000 equivalent album units with 485,000 pure album sales.
In addition, Lemonade earned the biggest week of any album release this year in both units and sales. She also broke the record to become the first music act to have their first six albums all reach No. 1 and debut at No. 1.

Kim Kardashian shows off her body after her massive weight loss


Kim Kardashian recently admitted that she's lost 70 pounds since she gave birth to her son in December 2015. The mother of 2 said she now weighs 139 pounds and is proud of it because her hard work at working out has paid off.